Snips and Snails and Puppy Dog Tails

What is it about 8 year olds?  I think they are trapped in a conundrum of creepiness mixed with a desire to stay young and grow up at the same time.  The feisty nature...The frustration of constant quarreling...Crying how no one listens..Then they want a hug like they are little.  Just pick one.  Growing up sucks.  I remember that.  I just wish they could understand....